on what i lost and will lose

today was a great day,
what started to be a nice exchange of jokes, laughs and rekindle turned out to be the ending of an unfinished friendship that died a couple of years ago; this person got surprisingly upset over an exchange of whimsical and clownish words on a thread started by a mutual friend. it is not to my surprise though, since ive remembered just person to have that snappy kind of mind; one moment, she will be all jokes and fun, then at a moment w/0 notice, she'll be utterly upset for something unworthy. it is in fact, why the friendship was frozen for almost two years. during that time, there was no flow of greetings, thoughts, emails, text messages or phone calls. all of the sudden, she begins to post comments on my postings. then today, the idea of reconnection was shut down over a joke that she initiated and couldn't afford to take back.
OH WELL! good luck for her and the friends she knows. the friends will really need lots of tactfulness to handle such relationship. but is it really necessary to behave tactfully among friends all the time?  i mean, ud think that a level of comfort, trust, and connection has been established that will allow good friends to be truly open with each other. i guess, it is only an ideal friendship that will allow such grade of perception.